Category: Life

  • lurk in the shadows

    lurk in the shadows

    Three or four years ago, not long after moving to Los Angeles, Joel and I hiked to the top of Griffith Park, the mountainous island of a park that rises out of the vast urban expanse of the city. Joel pointed out to me, as we walked in the coming twilight, that the park possesses…

  • hope. desire. destruction.

    hope. desire. destruction.

    Early this January, sometime after 3 a.m., alone in a rest stop bathroom, I walked along the wall of electric hand driers and, one by one, pressed each of the rusty metal buttons to turn each one on. A short minute later, when they had all shuddered to a stop, I did the same thing…

  • Mankato, Minnesota

    Mankato, Minnesota

    A little over two weeks ago, on a cold Saturday night in Rochester, Minnesota, Joel and I were loading our equipment out of the back of Kathy’s Pub, and as we walked through the patrons scattered in the alley, I suddenly saw someone I didn’t know, but who looked so hauntingly familiar that for a…

  • HEATWAVE Homecoming

    HEATWAVE Homecoming

    Now six months into 2012, Joel and I have been out on the road a full three, and so have been spending most of that time sleeping in the back of of our minivan, eating out of a cooler, showering at YMCAs and truck stops, and, of course, driving for hours on end. And the…

  • The Edge of the World

    The Edge of the World

    As I write this, Joel and I are on a westbound desert freeway some 300 miles outside of Los Angeles. We have played the final show on our tour and are headed back to where we started from two months ago. After being gone for so long and being so far away from everything familiar…

  • SPACE POD

    SPACE POD

    Near midnight on January 22nd, Joel and I quietly drove out of Los Angeles, headed north for several hours, and around 3 a.m. parked at a nondescript rest area somewhere along the coast of central California. Our plan as to where we would sleep that night, as well as most other nights for the next…

  • All in

    All in

    Joel and I have just left Seattle, and with two shows already in the books, the tour that has been six months in the making is now officially underway. And although this tour, at first, was nothing but a thought without any plan to make it real or any reason to think we could actually…

  • the quiet green haze

    the quiet green haze

    Last week Monday was a day that Joel has very much been looking forward to for the last three months, if not years, really. It was his last day at his office job here in Los Angeles before we leave on our our very first tour in late January. Ironically enough, with less than three…

  • Embrace the chaos.

    Embrace the chaos.

    The Violet Lights play their first show in over four months tonight, and I can’t deny I’ve been hoping that it will go amazingly…and perfectly. But, as usual, what’s real is much harder to control than I’d like. Just a few days ago, my keyboard basically stopped working, and when it will be ready to…